Loving You!

Some believe what we call "love at first sight". Love struck, it is a chance that anyone wishes to feel. Staying in love with that person is another thing... its a choice we have to make. We have to accept all shortcomings, negatives and everything you discovered and will discover in that person. And when we love, we must also accept the fact that we will be hurt. No need for us to complain then. When you are badly hurt.... and its your decision to fall out of love.

When we are in love, we must bear the pain. because staying in that situation is our choice. why blame others? why blame our partners? we are doing this as defense mechanism, so it will not hurt us more. 

Being in love is an inexplicable feeling. You  can see only beauty, hopes and forever. Once we get hurt, why we forget to look into that beauty, hopes and forever to help us ease the pain so we may continue loving. Its another choice we have to make.

Hurt will lead us to do many things, worse is when we can not control our temper... not even tame our tongue. Hurting the ones we love, emotionally, mentally and the worst is physically. Everything will be totally different from how we started. What is bad about this, too many people find it easier to decide to fall out of love than to keep the flame of love burning.

Then love another, doing the same thing. What a cycle? It seems that we are not tired of falling in love because of the feeling it gave us. 

• "you've got to love me for what I am, for simply being me"
• be happy with what you have
• think you are luckier than anyone else
• look into the negative of others, so you will see more of the beauty of your partner
• give the best you can, for you not to regret things you were not able to do.
• BUT... keep something for yourself.

in the long run, things will be on its right path. No self-pity, no jealousy, no hatred. No regret.

 
LOVE IS A COMPROMISE, MORE UNDERSTANDING AND ITS A GIVE AND TAKE, TRUST AND RESPECT. Love unconditionally, yet keep your own identity. Love is not you alone, but two to become one.

The one I love is not the person meant for me to live for the rest of my life. Only a love to teach me things in life, to make me a become a better person and thought me how to love more and my cross who lead me closer to the ONE I must serve the most. 

Thanks for the love, the time, the effort, the pain and everything, especially the kids, the most precious reward i got from loving you!